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Ep. 246 – Should I or shouldn’t you?
Imagine if someone at work approached you and said, “you should proof-read your e-mails before sending them.” Or picture a family member or friend saying, “you shouldn’t eat out so much.” In general, people do not like being told what to do. However, there are many times we need to tell them. In this episode, we explore a better way to get them to be open and listen to our suggestions without tuning out completely.
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